Friday, October 5, 2018

$103

What a monumental day!  I sent off my last student loan payment of 103 dollars.   This means I am officially loan free and 1/2 way to retirement.     15 years ago while I was filling out all the paperwork required to start 15 years of payments I felt like 15 years was forever away.   But just like the scriptures that say "By small and simple means are great things brought to pass"  in a blink of an eye I'm here.

I pause to think about me as a Speech Pathologist these last 15 years.    I'll admit I don't think I had a clue what I was doing 15 years ago still don't know have a clue with treatment of /r/.  I didn't stay in k-12 long enough to get good at it and luckily it's not a concern when they are 3-4.  Side note- a few years ago when I was once again being shifted around I was talking to my coordinator about always having to move and she said it was the nature of preschool because there were less SLP's to work with.  She suggested if I wanted stability I should move back to k-12.  My response was I don't know I thing about treating an /r/.  Lisa laughed and said "Oh hell that shouldn't be the reason you would figure it out".  I started in Davis School District and worked one year in an Elementary School in Layton and Bountiful Jr. High.  Then I moved to Salt Lake District in the Head Start Program for a couple of years, went part time and back to an Elementary School and a Jr. High for one year and then moved back to Special Ed preschool.   Head Start was where fell in love with preschoolers,  thanks in part to a great Special Ed.  teacher Carolyn Bone.  I observed and watched her artistically turn children's books into amazing therapy language group tools.     At first I wasn't that great at doing language groups but as I observed and imitated my skills grew and now it's one of my funnest parts of my day when I can captivate an entire class with books and objects and get those little silent mouths to use words. 

 For a while I was a little bitter that I was always required to pack up and move but over time I've seen that the change has caused me to reach out of my comfort zone and embrace new skills.  For instance I was happily back at Head Start working with the mild-moderate crowd of kids when the assignment came to move to a Severe preschool unit.  The short time I spent in a severe preschool, before I was able to move back to head start,  I felt pretty neutral towards the severe population.  Autistic kids were  not my favorite and I struggled with how to get progress out of them.  But as I moved back to into the world of severe kids, most of whom have autism, I discovered new tricks to the trade and have found they are a joy and wonder to work with.   I've adored working with down syndrome and other genetic disorder kids and feel like they are just a step away from Heaven and feel there choice spirits interacting with them each day.

At times I long to be a stay at home mom.  I'm sure I'll feel a lot more caught up in life but I feel quitting my job would be like walking away from one of my purposes in this life.    So I count my many blessings I get to work part time with a husband who encourages self reliance in women and independent kids who jump in to help. 


As a part timer For better or worse (depending on the year) I've missed most "school picture days"  I've only been forced to participate i.e. been at work during my first year then this year.






 So here's to another 15+ years.




Saturday, September 29, 2018

Aaron's Birthday week


My fun loving Aaron turned six!!!  I still adore this boy.  He's excitement for life is contagious and he has a natural charisma that attracts others to him.   I'm amazed how often we will be out and about and I'll hear this little voice saying "Hi Aaron".   I think others feel his happiness and acceptance and gravitate to him for friendship which he freely gives.     I've never been one to celebrate birthday weeks but this year it was a week long event.   Because one of Aaron's best friends is topically allergic to most food we forfeited a cake so his friend could stay the whole party and instead I decorated one for him to take up to Sunday dinner the week before.  







On Tuesday after his "Let's Play music class"  we stopped by Maverik for him to cash in his good behavior coupon because it was close to his birthday.



On Thursday his actual birthday the girls and I helped get class treats together for him to give out to all of his classmates.




Saturday came and brought lots of wind.  Not ideal for carnival weather but with a little creative substitution for games it turned out great.  














On Sunday Nona and Papa came down for the Primary Program and stopped by to give Aaron his birthday present.  Overall a great week for a great kid!

Saturday, September 22, 2018

Birthday dinner



My mom wanted to take all us of sisters out to dinner to celebrate our birthdays.  Everyone but me is born between July-September.   Allyson was planning on flying out but things turned when her nanny she just hired quit because of health problems and then new nanny was just starting and she didn't feel she could leave with the transition.   We decided to plan it on the weekend the Raquel's friend threw her a baby shower.  We enjoyed a yummy dinner at the Spaghetti Factory and then again at Raquel's shower the next day.   I love that my best friends are my sisters.  If I need to work something out in my brain there is rarely a time I can't get a hold of at least one of them.   I always tell my girls friends will come and go but your sister will always be there so make her your best friend.  I'm lucky to have 4 of them and an awesome mom!!!  







Wednesday, September 19, 2018

Thousand Lakes 2018

Oh camping on Labor Day how my family has missed you.   I'm finally at a point where I'll brave the elements as all of us can sleep in a tent without wake up pregnancy bathroom calls or infants who don't sleep well at night or are too onry.  Ok so except me freezing the first night in the tent and then the second night being woke up by each member of my family for stupid reasons all was well and my kids had the time of their life making memories with the cousins.






Dayson and Aaron spent an entire day with axes chopping down this little tree.  They were exhilarated when it finally fell over.  

Grandpa Dick took us up a bumpy road to Wif's pasture where his great grandfather once homesteaded the place.   Down off the mountain in the far distance we got a glimpse of Teasdale