Tuesday, July 31, 2018

What to do when your living in Crazy Town

June just flew by with hardly any down time for the me or the kids.  So after girls camp I was so ready to stop running and have a relaxing July.    Problem is my introverted self "relaxation" involves mostly staying home puttering around the house catching up on projects etc.  This however does not promote good behavior in my kids.   I know all kids have a lot of energy but I think my kids have more than most.  I've heard there are kids out there who follow directions the first time they are asked and are content to read books and watch TV all day everyday.  I'd like those kids to come possess my kids for the month of July.  The first day or two was fine.  They took lots of selfies, did some sidewalk chalk and doted over Spencer.  











But then after spending a couple of days at home my kids became bored.  My Grandpa Morrell would tell us kids when we complained about being bored that   Boredom was discontentment with life. Boy were my kids discontent there were constant fights, tears, arguments, extreme hyper activity and a whole lot of contention.  The contention I'l take full blame for as I don't handle the above things well.   Talking to Raquel one day I told her I feel like I'm living in crazy town right now with no end in sight.  Raquel said I need to always take them somewhere each day.  So I took a big breath said goodbye to my summer "break" and  reluctantly channelled my try to be fun self and set out in search of my sanity.   The following post are some of the "searches" we went on.   



Friday, July 13, 2018

Family Photos

I know we aren't the first Richard's Family to take Family Photos at Lagoon but how could I pass up the opportunity to have a fabulous photographer who moved to Connecticut but was in town for a few days offering her services to capture us in one of our favorite places to spend quality time together.  So thanks to Papa we got the park to ourselves for a bit. 

Here's a look at some of my favorites....
















Spencer calls this "bad guy" ride.   This picture is fitting don't you think?



























Sunday, July 1, 2018

Camp Candyland 2018

The call to be the Young Women's President that I received in April came with a lot of mixed emotions.  I really wanted to tell the Bishop he's got to be kidding to think with 4 kids and a job that I have any extra time in my life for such things.  Wouldn't it be better to call a stay at home mom for this?  But before I could wimp out the Bishop went into a tear jerking spill about this call coming from Heavenly Father and how he would magnify my time, energy and capacities to do it.   I also felt an overwhelming understanding about a revelation I had a few months prior.  Bart was applying for a new position with All State.  I was impatient awaiting their decision and as I was sitting in church contemplating our situation and I got a distinct impression about when he gets this offer are you willing to sacrifice more?   It calmed my nerves that he wouldn't get a rejection call but also got me thinking about the big pay raise Bart would be getting and how to best sacrifice more.  Well he got the position but the pay was the same.  A lateral move was Bart's response.  So a little confused about the second part of the revelation, I moved on and didn't think more about it until the Bishop extended the call to me and I instantly felt that the sacrifice part more meant my time.  The Lord had a hand in preparing Bart to get this new job to be home in  the evening hours to allow me to be gone then.  

As I began serving in this calling I was surprised at how much fun I was having.  The energy  from the girls and sisterhood with the others leaders has been wonderful but I couldn't shake feeling if only this call would have come in like 5 years.   Looking through my journal one day I happened across the entry the day I got sealed to Bart.   I had forgotten that the sealer told us that as we are faithful in the church callings will come most likely at inopportune times.   Once again I felt the Lord answering my question that sacrifice is not always on our time table.  

I also felt a little bitter that the call came right before summer with so much preparation with camp.   I soon met with the camp leader who gave me great anxiety with her passive I don't know what to do attitude.  The just released Young Women's President knowing she was moving at the end of the summer told me she recommended to the Bishop that they call new leaders before camp so they have a chance to bond with the girls.   I thought that seemed like a cop out for her.   I can humbly now say she was absolutely right.  Camp turned out to be just that an amazing way to bond with the girls and leaders and see why each leader I felt inspired to choose was meant to serve with me and the girls.

And we're off...




I love all these stinking girls (literally)


It was stake camp this year and when the church published new camp manuals that took out all the certificates it left us with extra time to just do nothing.   It stressed the camp leader out a bit but I think the girls liked the downtime best!


The stake provided an inspiring Faith Walk where the girls moved around to stations to hear about faith promoting stories from the YCL's.  They also had a fabulous fireside from a man who went from being an inactive youth to going on a mission to Haiti and there being kidnapped and escaping.   I loved when he shared that he later learned that at the exact time he was able to escape the Prophet and Apostles were in the temple ending a fast on he and his companions behalf.  





Our stake has a tradition called the singing rock.  I'm guessing at some point they all gathered around some rock and sung hymns but it has evolved to a gathering of all the wards on the field and each ward took their turn singing a specially selected piece.  Our ward chose "Amazing Grace" and Emily, Erika and Abby accompanied them on Ukuleles. 


The annual ward skits is always a treat for the girls to dress up and perform





The stake provided a fun afternoon of games!







The girls practiced some archery





The camp also had a zip line which the girls loved doing.  I was so proud of Emily she was the first one up on the zip line with no fear.   I've worried that Emily would just be in my shadow as we joined Young Women's on the same day but it's been fun to see her blend in with the other girls so well I hardly saw her and when I did it was surrounded by the girls.