Wednesday, September 28, 2022

Whole Self In....

 Bart has always played the hokie pokie  dance with autographs.    Since we've been married I've seen him go back and forth with his passion.   As newlywed's it was his way of supporting the family and made his loot always on the chase especially with the successful UofU football team with Coach Myer. After college when he started his full time job  it became a once in a while hobby.  Other than Sundance he is very picky about who he would go and get.  He has even gone  a long time without the itch to get an autograph.  There were times when his buddy Cameron would call up about some celebrity that I thought was note worthy and Bart would just shrug it off.   I've also seen Bart get someone in his head and go through hell and hi water to get where he needs to be to get the autograph.     In general I would say that Bart can usually keep a toe, or leg in the business and take it out when needed.  Lately he has had way too much success and the hokie pokie dance is drawing his whole self in and its a killer to take his whole self out and come back to the reality of a mundane job.  

Bart's most favorite birthday present I have given him the last few years is the freedom to go to Clint Eastwood's golf tournament each year over Memorial Day.   After making his trip plans they rescheduled the tournament but Bart decided this because his job is completely at home he could still go there over memorial day and stay the rest of the week and work all day and in the evening chase a few people that has been on his list for a while.  

His friend Gary had an in through a friend who works at the airport to go into the special waiting area of the place Julia Andrews was waiting before her flight.  Gary sweet talked his way into her conversation, presented her with some sort of gift and she gladly signed  for them.  Bart almost couldn't believe this Queen in the celebrity business was so pleasant.  




For years Bart's been longing for Harrison's Ford autograph on a few star wars pieces to finish off and his favorite Indiana Jones.  He's flown New York for him, planned a family vacation to Cody Wyoming for a celebrity baseball game that promptly got cancelled due to covid and over and over missed never ran into him in L.A.

Bart having extra time this trip waiting close to his house to follow him out.  One night as I was talking to him he said "I can just feel that something good is going to come out of this"  Sure enough he manifested it and he tracked him down.   Bart was ecstatic.  


 I'm not sure how Bart knew about "Kramer"  i.e. Michael Richards was at the particular church one day attending his daughters music recital but Bart scored a rare autograph with someone who is seldom in the public eye anymore.  



Bart now having Michael Richards autograph was hot on the trail of  Jerry, Elaine's and Georges.  He got Jerry a few times at a place he goes for  sat morning brunch and got my kids to help get George's at some premier while we were in L.A.  Elaine came to sundance a while back but he needs her again to finish off a few others.  I'm sure Bart will make this happen somehow.  


Bart went on an adventure with his buddy Ben to Washington D.C. for a concert/program to celebrate  John Williams turning 90.    Bart knew a  few actors in some of the movies he wrote the music to were going to attend and he wanting to kill many birds with one stone.    The security was so  tight at the concert hall that was impossible to get close to John Williams and the others.  Instead he drove up to New York City spent some time with an old paparazzi friend Larry.    Larry health is bad and had been in and out of the hospital for the last couple of years so Bart was grateful he took the opportunity to be with him.  


Eastwood's tournament was rescheduled for mid August.  Bart and Gary set out of their usual adventure to Carmel and as the story goes caught a glimpse of Clint at hole 9 or so.   They then snuck onto the Private Golf Course and approached Eastwood.   Clint was gracious as ever and signed a ton of autographs for them including the gun Bart had brought as well as this hat.  


Although Clint didn't have a problem with them the grounds security did and detained them in an office for a few hours and confiscated there paraphernalia.   Bart and Gary were not about to leave without their goods and went the rounds about being willing to spend the night in jail if they had to but in the end they made an agreement that they would give their stuff back if they promise to never lay foot on the golf course again.   They gladly left and said goodbye to their Carmel adventure forever. 

The last few weeks Bart's been in turmoil when Gary told him he got Clint's son's number and they have been texting and now he has info that Clint will be attending Kyle Eastwood concert in Oakland Bart didn't know how he could go or not go knowing it was a sure chance to see Eastwood again.  He sheepishly brought it up and we talked a lot about when too much is too much.   He confided that he knows it's ridiculous but it really is fun for him to go on these adventures.   He also found out Jerry Seinfield was scheduled at an event and talked $ about needing him to finish a few pictures. I frankly told him when he goes without my blessing he seldom has luck and I really didn't want him to go it's far too soon and we as a family are knee deep in fall activities.     Bart said he could wait to go get Jerry in November but if he did both of these things now he could drive his work car that is going away saving us the mileage off of our vehicles.   I'm such a sucker for Bart and will always be and told him if it really makes you happy then go and enjoy it.  

Friday, September 16, 2022

Taking care of each other

These two boys are the best.   They are finally in the same school together.   They get up, get dressed, eat breakfast,  make their own lunches, fill up their water bottles and our out the door at exactly 8:20 to catch the bus.   It's all done on their own because I'm at work at Bart although home is locked away in his office busy with claims.

I am so impressed with how kind and caring Aaron is towards Spencer.    He could be the older 4th grade brother who wants nothing to do with such a little 1st grader, leaving Spencer to fend for himself.  Instead he makes sure Spencer knows it's time to leave and then while waiting for the bus they take along a tennis ball and play catch with each other.  
Spencer told me that Aaron lets him sit by him on the bus and after school on the long bus ride home he brings a snack like a nutella sticks pack to share.   
Last year when the weather was warm Aaron would occasionally bike to school.   He asked me if he could do that again and then stopped and said Oh but then Spencer wouldn't have someone to help him get to the bus and dropped the conversation.  




 

I walked them to the bus one Friday.  Spencer took Stuffy because they earned a movie party and could bring their blankets or a comfy item to watch the movie with



Like a redwood tree.....

I was fascinated to learn from my nephew William, how one of the reason these awe inspiring Redwood trees have become one of the oldest organisms living 1000+ years is they can withstand most anything including fires.    He said they keep enough water stored away in their trunks that even fire will only scave them.  


Growing up as a desert girl, I fell in love with trees living in Sugarhouse amongst so many tall old trees planted by the pioneers.   I loved the shade and beauty it provided making neighborhood jogs and stroller walks a pleasant part of my memories of that time in my life.   





A couple of years ago I was at work as we just started the day and welcomed back the preschool students.   It was a windy day such as is common on a cold winter day in Teasdale.   We got word that the buses were coming back to get the kids and deliver them home because of the severe weather.   More news came that some neighborhoods and schools had lost power.   While many of my coworkers fretted about the storm, I didn't seem that severe to me being raised with wind so I went about my work. Around lunch time the admin kicked us all out and told us to go home.   I still didn't see the gravity of the situation until I drove down Emery street and saw a few large pine trees uprooted.   The news later reported as well as Bart's parents, JB and Mary and a couple co workers on the disaster that swept through the city tearing up these quiet giants of the city.   It puzzled me to think that in all the severe wind storms of Teasdale I never saw one take down a tree yet so many strong trees couldn't withstand one day of severe winds. 

(photo credit comes from Mary's blog )

I am blessed with a yard with lots of trees.  Soon after moving in the tallest shadiest trees that produced beautiful May blossoms started dropping most of their limbs.  I learned many consider these "trash" trees because they grow really fast but don't have the trunk and root strength to survive.   So we cut them down but they continue to produce these annoying shoots that are impossible to kill.  One got away from us hiding behind some bushes and didn't get noticed until it had grown taller than our pine tree in the back yard.   
We've had  a severe drought and some sprinkler problems and  I cried to discovered two of my favorite ornamental trees just couldn't survive without the constant supply of water  😭.  

   Our hilltop house's yard is the last project we have to do to complete the renovation.   We just aren't there enough to keep up with the large yard my mother tended to so many years.   As I considered how to restore it back to it's original untouched self I naively thought about simply replanting more of the surrounding juniper trees which seem to somehow stay green with little water.   I researched this a bit and discovered that these hardy yet small trees are around 400 years old.   In amazement I threw out the ideas that you can just return a yard back to what it was before the bulldozers.


    
 Over labor day we watched as Chap and Branson cut down a large pine tree that had died from an insect infestation.  It was pretty cool to watch this massive giant pine fight to stay upright but ultimately succumbed to gravity.






We as humans experience Earthly challenges just as trees do.  We also are spiritual beings  and experience emotional challenges as well.   How do we survive like the redwoods, junipers and the old pioneer trees in Sugarhouse?  How can we prevent all the infestations, droughts, and fires we will experience from  our time here on Earth?  Simply put how do we stay spiritually, emotionally and physically strong?   

Over time I've seen someone who I admired and thought was so strong collapse under  winds of temptation like the pine trees of Salt Lake.  
 I've seen sweet sheltered innocent young women I used to serve who were a little different but I loved them for their quirky selves slowly turn bitter and tainted as they found acceptance in peer groups who embrace worldly ideas that ultimately will lead to spiritual death.  It's like my cute sheltered ornamental trees in my back yard that caved when water got scarce.   
 I've seen a friend who I thought was unmovable crumble with the poison of offense from a egocentric priesthood leader in the church just like the pine tree on Thousand Lake Mountain which got infected with bugs. 

 On the other hand I have a friend  after hearing about some hard trials she has gone through and I thought was barely hanging on to the church with so many unanswered questions.  She just keeps going to church and continues to grow like the junipers who somehow find the nourishment its needs in dry climates.
I've been the recipient of much needed shade from many different people who willingly stretched out their arms to serve, love and support me when I needed a break from the harsh sun above like my beloved Pioneer Trees in Sugarhouse.  
   I admire my parents, grandparents and siblings for being so grounded with good sense and hardiness that just like the  trees in Teasdale nothing tears them down. 
(Must be something in the water there 😉) 
 It seems that the evils, anxieties, and sadness of the world is fast growing and attractive like my "trash trees" beautiful blossoms in May.  It's only a matter of time that the limbs fall off and we are left with annoying shoots that clutter up our lives if we don't constantly work to cut down the shoots. 
 I know when I nourish my spirit with the living water of the scriptures and humbly prayer I feel more like a redwood and the fire of the world doesn't seem to effect me.  

May we each nourish whatever beautiful and unique tree we are meant to be.  Some wind and drought is important to stretch our roots and make us strong enough to withstand the severe storms and then we can forget ourselves and find joy in reaching out our limbs and serve and shade others.   

Thursday, September 15, 2022

Dirty Kids= Happy Kids

Labor Day on Thousand Lake is always a grand time.  With my kids getting older I'm finally feeling hands free.   I noticed Spencer covered in dirt and realized dirty kids are happy kids.    

Lots of rides on the Cam An and 4 wheelers is always a treat.  




We took a ride to Baker's Ranch where my dad spent time each summer with his Aunt Bernice.    Now it's a barren dessert land with a few corrals and old cabins but back in the day when water was more plentiful it was surrounding with green corn and alfalfa fields.  My dad has lots of stories about his Baker Ranch days and this weekend mentioned how he and his other boy cousins had to sleep in the corn field to keep out the animals.  He laughed and said "I don't know if it worked we never woke up if they came in"


We stopped by Morrell Lake and ate lunch and fished for a while.. 



Spencer and Bergun worked on their huts and Spencer made a cops and robbers hide out.  




Aaron got Bart whittling as well as enjoyed some extra space for beabie gun shooting practice. 



Aaron started widdling  the aspens made himself a homemade rubber band gun.  Even Bart got into it and carved on a few sticks.  




Aaron helped Luke drag some logs down the mountain for fire wood and everyone pitched in to help Chap and Branson cut down a big tree for more firewood.  

 
The  lumberjacks kept us entertained and the kids working and moving lots of logs.  



Time just hanging out eating and talking our the camp fire.